The Dangers of Forming a Negative Identity

If we happen to be the type of person that wants to make the world a better place, we automatically assume that our approach will work. In 2020, an interesting phenomenon is that in an effort to make the world a better place, many well-meaning activists take on what I will call a negative identity.

Frame in the Positive

Let’s say I’m concerned about the treatment of African Americans in the criminal justice system. A noble cause indeed. I write articles about what is wrong with the criminal justice system and call out people who are complacent in it. This is valuable work. But I want to put out a note of caution. If we are always against a particular thing, what are we actually for?

One of the first Laws you read about when learning about affirmations is to always phrase your intentions in the positive. Not to get all woo-woo, but setting the intention to avoid danger and setting an intention to lead a fulfilling life produce different results. In order to avoid danger, you must effectively look for it (and you will certainly find it). If instead you set an intention to lead a fulfilling life, you would seek and find opportunities to do just that.

So perhaps instead of fighting an unjust criminal justice system and pontificating on how bad it is, we can create a positive vision for criminal justice. One of the main reasons why I was so impressed with Andrew Yang’s 2020 campaign is because he made it a point of saying that the state of our country isn’t just Trump’s fault, and that to get ourselves out of it, we need a positive vision of a new America. I think this resonated with a lot of people. We are so used to hearing what is wrong, and we are starving for someone to create a compelling vision of a better life.

Negative Voices are Loud

Negativity spreads much easier and faster than positivity. It is much easier to tear down than to build. It took many (probably 20+) hours to create my dining table. Any fool could destroy it within a matter of seconds. It is easier to point out negatives and tear things down. I’m not saying that there isn’t a time to destroy, but rather that in any effort to destroy, we should have in our minds the greater thing we will build in its stead.

There is great danger in forming a negative identity. The biggest danger is becoming stuck. If we fixate ourselves on the negative, we can ignore or even sabotage when something good comes along. Thanks for reading!

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